Not every time when someone breaks your trust because they have played you well.
But, by trusting others too much or too easily, you make it easier for them to hurt you emotionally.
There might be signs, but you choose to overlook them.
It’s you and only you who hand over your feelings to them.
Maybe it’s due to your kind nature or inability to think of the consequences. Which is good for some cases, but worst for many.
9 Signs You Easily Trust Others
Do you ever feel like “Am I trusting others too much?”, because eventually, you end up in a connection or with a friend who doesn’t respect you?
And, the answer is- “Yes”, when you find the given signs relatable.
This proves it’s in your nature to trust others without any second thought.
Better watch out of that habit, from now on.
1. You’re living with the regret of trusting the wrong person.
In case it’s not related to a relationship, then a friend broke your trust earlier.
The tendency to easily trust others eventually leads you to the wrong people in life.
Those people don’t value your feelings, but they shake your confidence to believe in others.
2. You just give without expecting anything in return.
So often, you get so invested in connection, you neglect if others play their part.
Beware when someone becomes too demanding.
Also, when they never offer anything back or too little for your connection.
They become habitual to only getting things from you.
Because you easily trust others, then not just hurt you emotionally, but financially also.
When you talk about yourself, you don’t think much. Not caring if someone wants to hear that.
But sometimes, if you open yourself too much, the wrong person has enough to break you down in no time.
Of course, you enjoy meeting new people.
But also you don’t have to trust everyone so deeply when they don’t share enough.
4. You simply can’t doubt others, not at all.
It’s because you’re a pure soul. Thinking, the world won’t hurt you, as you did nothing wrong to them.
Yet, some bad people can make your life miserable, by making you feel bad about yourself.
Just because someone is your friend doesn’t mean they’re your ‘true’ friend.
Maybe they’ve some intention you didn’t know about.
So, doubting can protect you to be alert and save your trust for the right one.
5. You trust others more than you do yourself.
What others say about you, you easily believe.
Someone who knows you trust them too much takes control of your life.
Overall, you want to be likeable among others. But why?
Well, because your low self-esteem makes you doubt you aren’t good enough.
6. You feel hesitant to ask anything to know them.
Likewise, you could ask them questions to understand someone better personally.
But you don’t.
It’s fine with the few details or you hope they’ll provide them.
Before you trust others, better know what they know the same about you.
Mutual understanding helps in keeping trust in the connection.
7. Your closest people often warn you not to trust others blindly.
Well, this one is a warning sign that you easily trust others and too much.
It’s in your nature to believe others, become too open-minded, and for no reason.
You might feel like your parents are being overprotective.
But they can feel whether a new friend or girlfriend can be trusted or not just by first look.
8. You often feel deceived for trusting too much.
This happens when you can trust others, but not doubt.
It might be your user friend, who acts nice with you when up to take advantage of you.
Even being close to you, they won’t let you feel their intention.
But when it’s time, they get things done for you which you won’t if you don’t trust them.
9. You want to be good to everyone you meet.
Because you’re excited about this new connection, you forget to check if someone is your two-faced friend, controlling partner, or jealous colleague at work.
It’s okay to be hopeful for the new connection.
But, some clues will reveal who they’re.
When you ignore such signs at an early stage, later you realize that you trusted the wrong person.
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If you’re trusting too much, Should you just stop it?
No, you shouldn’t. But be careful with whom to trust from then on.
The above signs alert you that you easily trust others, and you should stop that habit. And to keep your trust in the right people in life.
It’s the trust that fuels any connection to last longer.
But when you trust others and it’s just ‘too much’, your feelings are too vulnerable.
Because you haven’t checked the other side of someone.
Due to this, you find most people who use you.
Remember not everyone will see you as a kind person. But, they use your low self-esteem to their advantage.
The point is, trusting others is good. But, it is better to check if someone is trustworthy or not.
Because not everyone deserves your trust and genuine attention. Believe that.
With a strong belief in universal signs and positivity, Ketan P. started ‘Signs You Are‘ to shed light on the daily signals we miss. Every article on this site reflects his experiences, learning, and reflections over the years.